Hypocrisy

We learn to justify compromising our value systems based on our current situations.





This was an idea that occurred to me this morning on my commute. I have found myself so bothered lately by this idea but was unable to put it into words. I cannot say that I am free from doing this myself. So, why do I let it bother me so when I witness others falling prey to it? I like to think of myself as 'treating people how I would like to be treated'. I also tell it like it is most of the time and I am not so sure I would always like the outcome being on the opposite side of the spectrum.

I have been hurt by words before but maybe that was because I didn't quite agree with the words spoken. Do we ever agree when someone is being honest and the the words said don't reflect us in the best light? Also, it is hard to differentiate when someone is speaking actual truth, or their version of the truth. We have to be the ones to filter out their illusions and focus on the actual meaning of what is being said.

This being said, we have to take responsibility for our thoughts as well as what we actually say. It might not be the easiest thing to do. In light of past experiences and recent ability to put into words I created a mantra of my own.

Stop focusing on what we think everyone is doing wrong and start focusing on what is being done right.

This could be a great way to focus on positive things in your life. Did you know that some say the more you focus on positive things the more you are able to bring positive things your way?

New Friendships

I feel like such a doofus today.

So, there is a mom at my daycare that I think I could be friends with. She has a 'COEXIST' bumper sticker on her car like mine. These are not ones you see every day. From the first time I saw it something inside me told me I should introduce myself, give her my contact information and see if a friendship blooms. I know she must live out by me, since she has her kids at the same daycare. I don't know many people out in my area. This morning I finally felt that I had got up the nerve to do so. Actually almost knocked on her window but didn't get to her fast enough and she drove off. I was left feeling like goofball.

How do you go about making new friends when you aren't introduced to them by another friend? I feel like I am trying to pick up a date. I guess in actuallity. I am not a shy person, so why does it seem so difficult?